tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3004974476643738026.post8595016958644077309..comments2024-03-27T00:14:01.220-07:00Comments on Wendelin's Blog: Invest A DimeWendelin Van Draanenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02534698736990684819noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3004974476643738026.post-39154305241235118632014-07-02T03:38:10.423-07:002014-07-02T03:38:10.423-07:00I agree. I would much rather meet people and talk ...I agree. I would much rather meet people and talk to them face to face because, lets face it... real memories are made in person and its hard to truly get to know someone over text. Thought some people are better than others in that case. I prefer talking in person than all other technological forms of communication but sometimes its hard and difficult to meet up with someone. I wish I was good with phones but I have this weird phobia with phones so I cant really do phone calls. I admit I would rather text in that case. But sometimes texting frustrates me with the little amount of meaning I try to get across in it. Even though phones dont work for me, for some reason Im perfectly fine with skype and I'll do that if I'm way to far to meet someone and texting loses meaning. I dont think social media and technology can replace face to face communication but sometimes it is useful because I have situations when I cant meet someone for a long period of time due to the distance between us. Its not the same but it is better than nothing.<br /><br />I mean this blog gives you a sort of voice because you cant possible SPEAK to all of us all the time in person. This is a way to communicate until we all do get to meet you. (When is the fall tour schedule out?)<br /><br />So yes.. if you have the choice it would be better to spend time with a person than text. But usually if i'm texting I dont have that choice. Anyways this is a very controversial topic isn't it? Haha<br /><br />--Yusa<br /><br />P.S. Well you could always try vlogging in which we could here your voice. Theres an idea.Yusahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07336152552714339539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3004974476643738026.post-45999755446549074452014-07-01T13:10:49.076-07:002014-07-01T13:10:49.076-07:00I actually prefer technological communication. It ...I actually prefer technological communication. It gives me a chance to step back and figure out what I'm going to say, how I'm going to say it, and so on. In an actual conversation, I end up retreating into myself or blurting out the first thing that comes to mind, which can be pretty embarrassing.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01537186580183427918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3004974476643738026.post-31974603834123633942014-07-01T12:44:26.299-07:002014-07-01T12:44:26.299-07:00I do agree that I like voice to voice contact pref...I do agree that I like voice to voice contact preferably. It's more personal and I feel that the closer you are the more you get to know someone. You see their face, their smile, the funny way they tilt their head or the way they crinkle their nose when something that annoys them happens. You can hear the way their voice squeaks when they get excited.<br />But also, then, as an extreme introvert, I need a lot of energy to socialize, and at times when I want to talk to someone but don't have it in me to actually talk, texting is a god send.<br />And thirdly I wasn't actually annoyed with the main post as I was with some of the comments, probably just because I hear a lot of technophobic things said, which makes me upset.<br /><br />But come on, without technology there would be no way to have any kind of contact with one of my favorite authors ever or to share opinions in this way. And that does say something too :)Selica Leonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04087558258630314018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3004974476643738026.post-27485567648033579462014-07-01T12:11:10.528-07:002014-07-01T12:11:10.528-07:00I can't believe how that old Turtles' song...I can't believe how that old Turtles' song (Happy Together) has been running through my head since I typed in the subject of this post. Classic '60s pop. Go listen if you don't know it. Music is a pretty magical thing.Wendelin Van Draanenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02534698736990684819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3004974476643738026.post-50472768850472397872014-07-01T12:07:43.616-07:002014-07-01T12:07:43.616-07:00Selica (or, Miss Leone :-) ?) (Have you read Runaw...Selica (or, Miss Leone :-) ?) (Have you read Runaway??) Anyway, I'm sorry if my message wasn't clear. I'm not a techno phobe by any means. Most of us get caught up in messages, either business e-mails, or personal. I just realized this week the power of the voice. And, of course, all of us have different circumstances and personalities and issues. Sounds like technology has been a blessing in your life, so I judge that as being a good thing :-)<br />Wendelin Van Draanenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02534698736990684819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3004974476643738026.post-18208915448343616012014-07-01T11:28:20.019-07:002014-07-01T11:28:20.019-07:00Totally agree. I might be the worst texter in the ...Totally agree. I might be the worst texter in the entire universe. Seriously, I can end up responding to a message like a full week later, it gets that bad. I mean, I see the messages (sometimes), but I'm just so lazy, and I'd much rather have someone call me. There are also days I just have non-phone days and hide my phone (more like I throw it behind my bed or something so that I wont be tempted to look at it for the day because I'm too lazy to crawl underneath my bed and retrieve it). It's nice to have a break from technology sometimes. And to be honest, I wouldn't be mad at all if social media was suddenly obliterated from reality for all of eternity. Good riddace! Personal interactions are way better and more meaningful. Conversations can have so much more depth in person. Except I'm kind of awkward, so sometimes I sound way better when I write something out via text, and when I try explaining it in person it's just an awkward, broken story (because I'm socially awkward remember?). But that's just me. Still. I agree!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3004974476643738026.post-69464766789235621442014-07-01T10:16:55.302-07:002014-07-01T10:16:55.302-07:00On one hand, I might feel a little uncomfortable b...On one hand, I might feel a little uncomfortable being so dependent on technology, but on the other hand, I flat out disagree that it's disgusting how much society relies on it.<br />For years I was too afraid of phone calls, skype calls, and interacting to even try, and if I didn't have an easier, more stress free way to socialize, I wouldn't have any friends. Without texts, facebook, skype messaging, ect, I would have no friends. I never would have met my boyfriend. I wouldn't have the support I have had to get through long long depressive years of my life. I'd be lonely and miserable. I might be dead as far as I know. My life would not be what it is today.<br />So for people who say it's 'terrible' that you 'despise' text messaging and how it's 'pretty sad' how reliant today's youth is, try and look at the other side. Try and look at a homeschooled, miserable, depressed, suicidal girl who had never known friends or companionship. Who has never known the ability to talk to people about her troubles, who has bottled up all her emotions and has no social skills. Remember that text messaging can help out people who are just learning to venture out of their comfort zones. Remember that technology can bring together best friends who never would have met other wise.<br />Just remember you aren't better than anyone because you don't use technology, and you aren't worse. A person's choice of how to interact does not mark them as better or worse than anyone, but judging others for their choices DOES.<br />Thank you if you've taken the time to read my two cents. I just feel I owe a lot of my life to the ability to get in touch with people in a way I'm comfortable with.Selica Leonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04087558258630314018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3004974476643738026.post-44495679164892605572014-06-30T09:19:39.802-07:002014-06-30T09:19:39.802-07:00Someday, I really need to get a cell phone so I kn...Someday, I really need to get a cell phone so I know what it feels like to go without it for a few days. =) And this whole "texting" thing I've heard about sounds intriguing....<br /><br />-- Ryan, the dinosaurRyanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12243706924573005381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3004974476643738026.post-50034485076268282812014-06-30T08:29:16.634-07:002014-06-30T08:29:16.634-07:00Not a flattering picture of me, but the point is, ...Not a flattering picture of me, but the point is, how do you capture that in a text?<br />Wendelin Van Draanenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02534698736990684819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3004974476643738026.post-29455652953509775652014-06-29T23:15:05.767-07:002014-06-29T23:15:05.767-07:00Most kids my age can't get off of their phones...Most kids my age can't get off of their phones, but I don't rely on it a lot.i I can't say much because I've never actually experienced not having my phone. I'd much rather talk to my friends in person or on video chat than text. <br /><br />It's pretty sad how many people couldn't go a day without their phones or tablets. Like their completely obsessed with them. <br /><br />I hope everyone has a great week!<br /><br /><br /><br />GabrielleGabriellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02471660304961348918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3004974476643738026.post-75470381248047326962014-06-29T22:57:32.124-07:002014-06-29T22:57:32.124-07:00I despise how much I rely on technology. I can go ...I despise how much I rely on technology. I can go days without picking up my phone and texting my friends and a day without internet is manageable, I can possibly so two, day three hits me like a train, and then I am fine. But the actual convenicing i tell myself to not use the internet is where it really gets rocky. I feel like I need it. But I don't, I really don't. I just have a hard time tell myself that. <br /><br />What is terrible about the whole taking vs. texting thing is that my friends would rather text me then call me because of convince. Since a text they can answer then walk away from and then come back and continue that but a call can't be walked away from (unless you are ignoring the person). <br /><br />I am hope next year with my friends being sprinkled through out the country at their different colleges will be more open to a call or a skype conversation because I would rather see their face express emotion than their typed words. <br /><br />Also love the picture above. Especially the shoes. Although when do I not love converse?<br /><br />Any way, have a fantastic week everybody!<br /><br />KylieKyliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11837543024870687967noreply@blogger.com